him: It’s like, when I’m with you, I want to be fully present, fully loving, fully sexual, fully happy with who we are in that moment. And then when I separate from you, I want to be able to bring that fullness to somebody else, and for you to be able to experience that fullness with somebody else, and not have all that old possessive stuff come up…. And yeah, I might go through some jealous stuff. You might too. But if we do, it’s really important we process those feelings.